Does it make sense to have a relationship with a widower?

Does it make sense to have a relationship with a widower?


I met a guy a couple weeks ago. Began to communicate well, to hang out in ACE, and in real life see. Finally it seemed that personal life is improving after a year of loneliness. Of course not. I've known guys for a year, but it wasn't the same, it wasn't mine. This one did. Like people close in spirit and views - and this I happens infrequently, it's easy and good. But yesterday I learned that he divorced - in his youth-stupidity married, then broke up, no children. Like on the one hand I understand that it is normal that in 30 years someone was, on the contrary, it would be strange if anyone ever. But on the other hand, I would have no problems accepting what he was seeing somebody, lived a civil marriage even, but the stamp in the passport... Seem to understand -life happens, it is necessary to look more not at what once was and what is, and if the person itself is normal, the status of divorced is not very important. But here's a thought - and if you are in a serious relationship with him, just to hide from parents this will not work, and mom is certainly not like it that I'm Dating a "man" who was already married! I'm almost 24 years old, and it seems that the train is gone, normal or busy, with girls, and even married or divorced like that, and if free, then younger than me or with some obvious problems. Yes, I too not a gift, but I have a right to personal happiness!